A really strong person, will not spend too much attention on pleasing and affectation others above, the so-called circle, resources, are derivatives, the most important thing is to improve their own internal skills.

You have to do what you have to do quietly, when you become good enough, what you want will come to you, you will find that the people around you are good.

Very like a paragraph: tall and phoenix will come, flowers butterfly, people will move forward, flowers open since the sun, weak, the most bad people. The gentleness of this world comes from your strength.